Of course, I had to approach this from many angles — practice, deep study, and practical testing in my life, in relationships, and in business. It wasn’t an easy journey. I had to break through several tough barriers. When I finally grasped this understanding — at first just intellectually — it felt painful, even offensive. But there was always a steady support system, both human and professional. Those transitional periods, where old destructive philosophies gave way to new ones, were crucial. I learned to work with this new theory as a whole, simple yet profound because parts of it were already familiar. The most important realization I came to — and I shared this before — was what love really is. This realization flipped my entire life upside down, then righted it. Suddenly everything was simple and clear.
Life is empty and meaningless. Nothing inherently carries meaning or purpose. All meanings, values, and “whys” that we think exist — we create ourselves, consciously or unconsciously. This is why so many concepts confuse us. Since life itself is just emptiness, the only thing we can truly do is create.
What should we create? Anything. Anything at all. The only things that hold us back from creating are causal chains that exist purely in our minds. These ideas come from other people, communities, or our own collective assumptions. None of these mental constructs are realities; they cannot be obstacles because they do not exist in physical space, time, or continuity. Fears, thoughts, feelings — they only exist inside us. So, they don’t have the power to block creation.
Everyone is part of multiple communities: family, friends, colleagues, partners, country, and ultimately humanity itself. The wider the community a person connects with in their creation, the more easily they build meaningful links and shape the life they desire. Those who contribute on a global level — the ones who change humanity — are often those who have fully expressed their authentic selves.
Our world functions on agreements, and agreements live in language. Mastering the languages and understandings of different communities allows us to grasp these agreements and succeed even when those agreements seem opposed or conflicting.
Love is not simply a feeling, closeness, sex, or communication. Love is infinite space — a permission to be exactly as you are. It means accepting people fully, without excusing or ignoring their quirks, allowing them to exist as whole beings, not fragmented parts. When we practice love at the level of larger communities, like humanity itself, it transforms how we relate to individuals within those communities. It becomes impossible to love humanity and not love its people.
The best way to live this empty, meaningless life is not by trying to fill it with some invented meaning — which will always be a construction — but by manifesting yourself as a possibility for the communities you are part of. This is pure, absolute leadership — free from manipulation or using others as mere resources. Being a possibility for your chosen communities gives you incredible strength, motivation, and opens the door to new opportunities.
It’s a longer reflection than I intended, but I hope the main point is clear. These ideas aren’t new, but together they formed a new truth for me. They work in harmony.
You stop exhausting your mind with endless worries. Instead, your brain shifts to one question: “How can I become another possibility for humanity?”
